Who Are you in Love? How Much do you Give and Why?

Over the past period I’ve seen how many have worked at many different relationships. With partners, jobs, children, parents, friends. The list is endless.

Giving, giving, giving… and often getting very little back. Well, perhaps not in the way you feel works for you, anyway.

What are you really sharing, that is so important to continue to share, in the face of either a non-return, or just plain objection from the other party?

Time for a Deep Breath!

Here’s the thing, if you’re giving all the time and it works for you, then by all means continue. What works for you works for the universe, ultimately, because you are your own universe. On the other hand, if it doesn’t work for you, then let it go. Just stop: doing, giving, loving, trying, whatever.

Walk away and watch what happens next.

You just sit, when everything dies down, as it will, in the ensuing stillness you watch and wait. You will then know your next step. Because the universe is not just in you. It IS you.

Remember the first law of the universe is to Love Yourself.

Love to hear your experiences.

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